Get a Harley! And a hot girlfriend! And a Gulfstream! And one of those cool Aston-Martin drop-tops! And a hot girlfriend for the hot girlfriend!

And that would make you every bit as superficial as WAS.

Be yourself -- but the "yourself" you want to be for the boys. If that's not good enough for her, then you know something about her, don't you?

Our sitch's are almost identical, except for the age of the kids, and our ages (+/- a couple years).

Seems a lot of WAW's in our age group. I'm DB'ing, she's up on the Get Yer Totally Awesome Divorce Gals home page.

I am what I am, says SP the Secret Man. If it's not good enough for her, I'm sure it will be for someone else. But most importantly, I'm sure it will be for the children who depend on me.