Giving her time and space is the BEST thing you can do for your troubled marriage right now. Be supportive of her, IF she asks for it...and validate her feelings. Honor her, cherish her, and respect her by giving her the time and space that she needs. It's the hardest thing to do...but you HAVE TO DO IT. I'm sorry for the troubles that you are experiencing.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
