What has your h got to gain from going to court? I just don't get it.
In 'his' world he thinks he will get more than we have currently agreed on. He hasn't considered how much it will cost us both and probably mean we would both have to sell up to pay the court costs.
As fas as I am concerned this is tantamount to mental torture/abuse and manipulation of a minor.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15