Your H is only slightly better than Laughing's H, but only slightly. Omigosh! Selfish doesn't even begin to describe him. I know you still love him, ACJ, but I hope you get over that soon. He is taking your children away, and alienating them from you. What you do is get yourself calm and clear-headed and fight for what is yours, even if it destroys him --- and it wouldn't hurt to destroy OW too (I mean figuratively of course --- I'm not that militant - ha!). Start planning! He might think he's winning, but I know you can beat him at his own game.
Just my opinion, but you know I care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim