Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

[sweet-1]

AHHHH!
I just saw on facebook (it was an update) that W posted a pic from the top of the lighthouse in the OM's town. The kicker is it's date stamped as Mar 22. She told her sister she was flying to Victoria on the coast, she told her boss she was going to her mother's house 7-8 hours away from Victoria. Then this pic shows up and it's 8-9 away from either, or 11-12 hours away from here.
I'm not sure if OM's wife was there or not (doubt it). She (OM's wife) was at the resort all winter, so she probably went home for a bit when he returned to watch it.

Should I say anything, let it go, or just add it to the file for my lawyer. If they really are just friends, is it better to let her and OM discuss it in front of lawyers or would that hurt me?

We were at D's riding lessons tonight and talked a bit about housing, kids clothes etc. She still won't make eye contact, but she commented that her 1 bdrm appt (kids sleep together in a hide a bed on her week), is probably gonna be her home for a while yet. I felt sorry, but said nothing. I really miss talking to her, and being with her physically. It really makes it awkward, but I have to keep up the DBing and hope for the best.