Yes, ditto what Tommy Boy said. Hate to see her reel you in a little, you let it all out, and then her push you away again.
Will keep my fingers crossed for the cancer thing (and the marriage!), although I will tell you this. In our department, of the last 8 people working there, four have had cancer and one more has had a scare. Both women had double masectomies. Their advice is this. DO NOT WORRY YOUR PRETTY LITTLE HEAD ABOUT ANY OF IT UNTIL YOU KNOW FOR 100% SURE WHAT YOU ARE DEALING WITH. You don't worry about speculation, or anything else until you know for SURE. You spend that time PRAYING instead.
Good luck.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
Hate to see her reel you in a little, you let it all out, and then her push you away again. 
