You are absolutely 100% right. Now to work on the guilt I feel when I am trying to be free, trying to "do me". I always feel like there's some Mommy or wife duty I should be doing.
Perhaps it'll be a lil' easier now that the weather's getting warmer. I can be out & about w/ my girls and not confined to the house.
I have such a hard time putting me first, b/c I don't want the label of bad mom, bad wife, uncaring woman. B/c I'm not.
I'm starting slowly. Manicures, pedicures, doing my hair, buying sexy decent clothing. Now I need some heels LOL...im doing things that make me feel beautiful and sexy and confident. FOR ME. I put that stuff off for way too long.
Now I just need to get my butt out of the house!
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug