I appreciate both of you checking in and offering all the advice.
PMA - just wanted to let you know I am pretty dense so I need to get hit with some pretty clear 2x4's at time for me to really get what people are trying to tell me. Stuck has been following my thread for a while now so he knows that already but wanted to let you know not to be afraid of being blunt.
Stuck - it really has been a crazy couple of days. Weekends are always tough. That's a good point how she was talking as the victim. I didn't pick up on that. How would you suggest I handle it when she shifts into victim mode? Do you think I should just call her out on it? Glad you're back on my thread. As you can read, a lot of craziness happened
Thanks to all!
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13