Stuck808 and PMA_Baby!

I appreciate both of you checking in and offering all the advice.

PMA - just wanted to let you know I am pretty dense so I need to get hit with some pretty clear 2x4's at time for me to really get what people are trying to tell me. Stuck has been following my thread for a while now so he knows that already but wanted to let you know not to be afraid of being blunt.

Stuck - it really has been a crazy couple of days. Weekends are always tough. That's a good point how she was talking as the victim. I didn't pick up on that. How would you suggest I handle it when she shifts into victim mode? Do you think I should just call her out on it? Glad you're back on my thread. As you can read, a lot of craziness happened

Thanks to all!


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13