Another question. I did not see it in your sitch, but maybe I forget. Is there an OM in the mix?
There very often is -- hidden and not being discovered until later in the process. If not, I hate to cast doubt in your mind, but, it is always better to know.
Take care and stay strong for yourself.
She says there isn't when I have asked. But I suspect there may have been an emotional affair somewhere in there, though I have no evidence of anything. I just have this feeling from something she said before, but has since denied saying and says I remembered wrong. And of course she used that as an example of how I remember things wrong and twist things around. But I think I remember everything that was said very clearly. But I have no evidence and she denies anything of that sort.
But my IC says from what she has heard of the goings on in my stich from me, she kinda suspects that there is or was someone else.
I wonder if there is a little bit of MLC going on too cause she is going to be 40 this year. She is reevaluating her entire life, and seems that she thinks she made a mistake in the past with getting married to me cause 'she wasn't that in love with me, and it was all due to her past insecurities'. And now she wants a clean slate to start life all over using her 'new found knowledge' of what really makes her happy before it's too late and she is too old to start over.
