Smiley - this is a rare step into the advice highway for me...
...you don't say any more than you have...
You continue doing what you've been doing...and leave her to process everything - in this madness one person needs to be the constant...the rock...to offer to hold the compass...
And to maintain honour and dignity in the face of everything that going on...
If anything has got me back to where I am now its compassion and friendship...2 basic human qualities we are all able to show to most people - but seem to desert us when we're dealing with spouses who don't want us any more, yet who we desperately want to win back...thats one tough situation for negotiators to deal with!
