I'm Not a Doctor, But I Play One on DB

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Anger is not "good" exactly...but a good sign. When I was angry with my H, while we were going through IT, he could assume correctly that I still gave a rat's... When your WAW is indifferent, you may have lost entirely. But if she will still flare up - you are still in the game. To the folks on the other end of the anger - your challenge/opportunity comes with how you respond to that anger. Don't yell back. Don't push back (figuratively, not literally). Don't defend. LISTEN. Endure...but LISTEN. Validate if you can get a word in. If you can't get a word in, validate 24 hours later - she hasn't forgotten for her throat may still be .... sore from yelling. She remembers what she was angry about.

Cheers ~