I'll definitely look on-line for the article you're referencing as any tips seem to help.
Thanks for your words and support. Isn't it funny how we are so similar in our situations yet we've never met? It is remarkable how two human beings like the women we married can be so similar, have such similar backgrounds, similar issues, similar reactions, etc., etc. etc. Completely bizarre.
It is truly a great thing to be able to see inside the person and discover the hows and whys. Knowledge is definitely power and knowing how our "ladies" tick really helps us deal w/their inconsistencies and anger.