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Carlos,

I'll definitely look on-line for the article you're referencing as any tips seem to help.

Thanks for your words and support. Isn't it funny how we are so similar in our situations yet we've never met? It is remarkable how two human beings like the women we married can be so similar, have such similar backgrounds, similar issues, similar reactions, etc., etc. etc. Completely bizarre.

It is truly a great thing to be able to see inside the person and discover the hows and whys. Knowledge is definitely power and knowing how our "ladies" tick really helps us deal w/their inconsistencies and anger.

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Gypsy,

I love this thought:
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My newest line: When I want to say something, listen; when I don't what to say it, speak up.

Thank you - I'm going to steal it!

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Rob,

So...I looked it up...and it's the March 2009 issue of GQ, page 102. "All Your Really Need to Know About Cologne."

You sound like you're doing great...makes me very happy for you and your D.

-Carlos.


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Rob, not so sure about men's cologne, but I do know that for the ladies you need to try perfume on your own skin first as it can smell completely different from one person to another.
As it is not cheap might be prudent to go to the store and do some testing.
Have some products names in your mind first but the salesgirls are usually very happy to help.
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Hey Rob...

What do you say to your students who get really afraid and anxious about taking a test? Do you give them perspective, reassurance? Try some of that love on yourself when it comes to dating. When you're upfront about your situation (recently divorced, scared as heck) then the load is taken away.

And.. she probably feels the same anxiety toward you, too.. because, Rob.. you're a mighty FINE man! Uh huh!

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Rob,

Don't scare the girl off. \:\)

Someday you'll look back at all of this and say, "Wow! I can't believe I ever wanted my ex-W back. Scary!"


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Hi Rob -

One cologne that I found and like is "Chrome" by Loris Azzaro.

Be confident but not too clingy with the new girl.

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BTW... You might not want to mention you are a Husky football fan until maybe the 5th date. But then again, it might show that you are loyal even in the darkest of times.

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VW Canada...I'll be watching!

By the way, good luck with the date and the cologne! Wow, nervous????...I wonder if I will ever get there? I sure hope so...sounds exciting.

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Rob,
Sorry i have not posted in a long time. I did not get many responses on my thread, but I have decided to try again. As for your XW's text. well, she was not able to coparent while you were married , why would she be now. I think the best advice you got was to act like a single parent. I think it will save you much grief. Too bad she can't just be civil. Good luck with the dating, i think it is great that you are out there trying. The commercial sounds like fun, are you a model as well as a teacher?

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