Walk Away German Wife (WAGW)

[MrBond]

I don't think it's a pity party. If you go back and read your posts from the beginning, you'll see that she's had chinks in her armor that have been slowly getting to her. All that talk showing off her apt., car, etc. is just that...talk. It seemed to me like a false sense of bravado.

Kind of like a teenager. They'll say "I know" this and that and try to make a go of it. Then any little positive things they show, they show it off. But then reality sets in and they go back to needing the stability of mom and dad.

Same thing applies here. I think she is getting worn down and is looking for some sort of stability.

By you showing her your changes and doing things without emotion, she has no choice but to look within and re-evaluate what she's doing.