That makes sense. I guess I would just be doing it to collaberate stories, not a good idea. I'll drop that one.

Ok, hears a new one, I haven't initiated contact with h for about 3 weeks. So we never talk unless it's about the kids. When he first moved out I said we need to make up a schedule to spend time with the kids. He called me bossy. Ever since it has been just an understanding that he gets them every other weekend. Which is fine with me, it was just never discused. So he texts me today:

Do I get the kids this weekend? Hi how r u?

I replied: I'm good! I was planning on you having the kids, that will be good. We should really make a schedule!

He replied: I just thought every other weekend. do you want me to have them more that is cool.

That is not what I asked, how do I respond to that?

He also gave me a list of weekend she want them this summer, I told him I would check my calendar and get back to him.


Me:44
H:40
D:14
S:12
Bomb: 12/08 & 12/04
H moved out 2/09