Originally Posted By: Stillhope
I don't really agree with this. While the physical attributes may initially attract us IMO it is of much lessor importance when chosing a mate....Sure -- we all want to score with the hot chick - but few of us want a long term intimate relationship with one we don't admire and respect. In my opinion a *truly* hot chick is one that has the other things - and the physical traits are secondary.


Point taken. I was being a rather generic and certainly over-simplifying things to make a point about a basic difference between the sexes. As a man, even with the woman that you love, admire, and respect, it is her physical characteristics, especially if she'll flaunt them at you (combined with a wink and a smile), that will quicken your pulse and get you started in the chase to 'conquer' her, time and again.

-- B.


Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs
S25, D23, S13, S10
20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007