You are truly an amazing woman. I wish you the best in that endeavor and, hey, if things don't work out I can think of a few men that would appreciate that attitude ;\) (seriously, you just need to let things happen then, right? Be the person you want to be, and he's bound to find you -he'd be crazy not to.)

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I want to create that mystery again, I want to show that interest in him again. B/c after all when some men cheat it isn't b/c of how the new girl looks, it's about how she made him feel.

Ever wonder what the attraction of Hooters or strip clubs is? Note, I'm not one to frequent either, but I can tell you why my friends do: it's how they make them feel. No 60 year old, overweight dirty old man is really going to think a 20-something hot-chick wants to take him home. Really. They pay for the illusion.

True story - a friend of mine that likes the clubs wanted me to go with him in Las Vegas. I declined but dropped him and another friend off there. They were back early. When I asked why, he told me that it was because the stripper sat on his lap and reached into his shorts. He ended it right there. She ruined the illusion and crossed the line. I laughed, but I always remember that moment and the look on his face. He had no desire to take her home. He wanted to be entertained. It was exciting for him up until she crossed from fantasy to reality. Then it ended. I don't think he's been to a club since to be honest.

Go get 'em tigress. Be you. Be gentle.

AJ

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."