Hi FLTC, sorry to read about the crappy situation with your STBX. Hope you'll be able to drop the "STB" part soon and move on with your life, and that you get a fair deal financially. Good luck to you and your children.
Me 30 WAW 28 Married 7, together 10 3 daughters: 6,5,and 2 Bomb dropped: 11/08 Divorced: 1/09