When I say great that is not wrt to your M but for you and hopefully your M.
What helped me the most and I'm not sure this is what you want to hear but at one point I just resigned myself to the fact that my M was over.
When you resigned yourself to the fact that the marriage was over, did you take it to the point of dating or just not pursuing in hopes of reviving the old one?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
