Baggy - YES, what you are saying is true! Brains, wit and humor, kindness, masculinity, and a bit of a wild side (even if hidden from view) are always going to attract a woman.
However, a HOT man also attracts a woman, so add brains, wit, kindness and masculinity to a HOT man and you've got a ... ...
(((((Bagheera))))!!!
Don't sell yourself short! You got the whole package! (adjusting dress and checking make up)