After my successful db'ing I did look at it as a playbook, a plan for myself to get better from the total devistation that my wife laid on me. If my wife noticed a better me and came back then great, if not, hey, I am still a better person for it. Now that all of that is behind me and I continue to work on myself, I have even thanked her for doing this to me, because I am a better man now than I was. (she thinks so too)
Any questions?
OK Coach, you're dismissed. If we need you, we'll look for you laying on the beach at Maui, reading your playbook and considering all new lucrative contract offers.
