We have a saying that is so true for your situation. "GOD may not answer you when you want him to, but he's always right on time". You see just when you think that he's deserted you he comes through. Man I was desperate(in his sitch) and I didn't think he would listen to me but he heard me and answered my prayer. Your wife has got to want to change. If she remains stuck up, continues to harden her heart and refuses to change GOD may remove her from your life completely. That is something you must be prepared to deal with. GOD is not in the business of breaking families up but you'd better be careful of what you wish for. He may have a better woman for you.
Food for thought, food for thought.
That is great food to chew on for a while :-). I know it applies to my sitch right now as well as many others here. Thanks for sharing.
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09