You should just figure out a 2 home schedule that works best for you and your kids schedules then let her go figure out how green the grass really is. At first it will seem like such a relief to get away from this controling, obsessed jerk, but then she will hopefully realize how much she misses you. It's hard but you have to let her go in order for her to find herself and then hopefully her love for you again.
I appreciate your support PMA_Baby. I hope that she realizes that she misses me, but I'm not very hopeful....
May I ask how you handled Dark/Dim or what you did when you were separated?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13