Need to make changes for me (thread #2)

[Startingover2]

You know that keeping communications via text/email will help you detach as well. No personal face to face or on the phone stuff will put some distance there. It will also give you a chance to take a breath before you respond.....if you respond.

If your H texts anything that is personal, don't answer. If its business and it can wait....make him wait a few hours or even a day. Take some control back of your own life. Its not a game for him as much as building you back up.

Go check out my thread in Newcomers, even though I am far from a newcomer. I have been at this a really long time and my M is over, but I am working hard on placing boundaries. We have a 1 year old baby together now and its tough. Would love to hear some of your opinions as well.
This is my latest of many threads:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1743698&page=0&fpart=1