A new thread, a new outlook.....

[Can it work]

Ok PM, I'll give it a try. I know deep down she loves me because.... who wouldn't?

Sorry, I didn't take that very seriously did I? To be honest PM, I'm not looking for her to love me right now. First I want to be her friend. I want her to turn to me not only for advice but for fun. I want us to laugh and joke together. I then want her to realise that I'm someone she wants to be around. From that, she will then realise that no matter who else she might find in this world, he won't be Wee Man's dad. A dad who by all accounts Wee Man loves spending time with because it's so much fun. Then I want her to turn those feelings of friendship in to feelings of affection and finally love. At that point, I'll have succeeded and will not allow myself to go down this road again.

Positive thinking is a powerful tool indeed PM. I find it is helping me more than anything. There are still times when the doubts try to push through but I'm doing every thing I can to keep them supressed.

Kev