K...I'm so sorry you are here....hopefully you will get someone like YR or Snodderly or one of the others who have been through this to answer your questions....

My H has not changed a bit in the year he has been gone...NOTHING...still thinks he made the right decision...still thinks he has found his "true love"...

Hang in there...come here to vent...I always do...we will pick you up, dust you off, and you'll be good for another day...

(((hugs)))

Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity