Glad to hear you are sounding so positive. I am sure your positive attitude is having an impact on not only your W and Weeman but her relatives and your friends as well. People are attracted to positive energy so it's a very powerful tool to have. Hence I have it in my name to remind myself. Hehe.
You are using your energies wisely, GAL, relationship building and work. Good for you. I think it's a good sign that W is feeling so comfortable around you, it's a baby step and much much better than the alternative so don't knock it, OK? Stop telling yourself that she doesn't love you, though. Prove the opposite, c'mon, I won't spoonfeed you this time, give it a try. I know deep down she loves me because...
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09