Hi SLH,

He called us last night around 8 something, we spoke for like 15 mis, it was nice. He basically was telling me everything he's been doing, he had a fun conversation w/ each of the girls. He lost the paper w/ my work number on it so he didn't call my job during the day, he stayed in and relaxed, and went to the gym.

I doubt his brother would tell him anything b/c my H doesn't spill our biz like that, the only one who knows 99% of the sitch is his dad, which like you said is like his BFF.

I feel confident that he's taking time for HIM. Remember that argument I told you we had when he was coming home on the train, when he had said he just wanted HIM time, time to be able to think in peace. So I think by me giving him his space when he's there he doesn't feel smothered. One of his complaints during the bomb, was that I smother him.

Last night when he called he actually sounded "happy" to talk to me, he sounded upbeat, and we had a nice conversation. Let's see what this next wk brings.


M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug