Hurtinky...all I can say is that "I've wasted 30 years of my life" is the biggest hunk of BS that I have ever heard. And even if it were true....WHO WASTED IT?

As for the inlaws.....I have the same issue. My inlaws SUED ME IN SMALL CLAIMS COURT without notice for a mortgage payment they covered for us when times were tough a year or so ago. It shows the type of people that they are.

My advice to you is simple and basic. No R or M talk at all costs. Let go and begin to grieve this and start to put the focus on yourself. Get Venus and Mars: Starting Over by Dr. Grey. It helps.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;