I agree w Gucci. I did the family home nesting thing for awhile (6 mons), which at first seemed best for our daughter. Then it just got hard and confusing for her. Which parent is on shift now? Plus you still feel the others presence which continues the feelings of being trapped and pressured to stay. You should just figure out a 2 home schedule that works best for you and your kids schedules then let her go figure out how green the grass really is. At first it will seem like such a relief to get away from this controling, obsessed jerk, but then she will hopefully realize how much she misses you. It's hard but you have to let her go in order for her to find herself and then hopefully her love for you again.
