I agree with Sandi. The first thing I did post-Bomb was de-WAW the house. Pictures gone. She had bought me a shirt while she was on her trip -- the one she decided to divorce me on -- and I left that on her dresser, along with a wallet she gave me at the same time, etc. If I'm on my own, I'm on my own, thank you -- I can get my own pictures, wallets, and shirts just fine.
So I'd rearrange, just as Sandi says. It sounds trivial, but it was important for me -- it made me feel like I had SOME power in this situation.
