Well update. Saw WH at work today and told me he is "no longer manager". one of the guys that worked FOR him is not the "temporary manager" till the new sr manager starts. I asked him if it was because of the situation (H having affair with direct report), and he says "oh no", they were just looking for a scapgoat and replaced me.
He actually seemed like he was in a good mood. It was like he was sooo far in the fog and figure he got away with getting fired.
Doesn't he care he threw his career out the window for the OW???
I acted as if that was the reason he was replaced. Did not say it was because you had s-e-x with your direct report.
The worst part he might end up going to work in the building where the OW works and may actually sit in the same room.
How did the Karma bus pass me by again???
unbelievable.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
I am working home today because I just need to be out of there today.
Doesn't anyone get it. My only prayer is that if they work together, spend every night together it will take what is left of the fantasy away.
God has a plan and I have to have faith in that. I don't get it nor understand this.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
If I could only fly I'd go up and look down from the sky So I could see the bigger picture And Lord if I could sit with You At Your feet for an hour or two I'm sure I'd ask too many questions 'Cause there's so much going on down here That I must confess I just don't understand
BRIDGE But I have prayed And at your feet my whole life has been laid So I wont worry I wont be afraid 'Cause my soul is resting on Your higher ways Let the road ahead become unclear I am Yours so what have I to fear If my soul is resting on Your higher ways
CHORUS Your higher ways teach me to trust You Your higher ways are not like mine Your higher ways are the ways of the Father Hiding His children in His love
BRIDGE So let it rain And if my eyes grow dim with tears of pain This hope I have will not be washed away 'Cause my soul is resting on Your higher ways
Someday I will fly and Maybe then You will take me aside And show me the bigger picture But until I'm with You I'll be here with a heart that is true And a soul that's resting on Your higher ways
Hope, all the best-laid plans. He's still foggy but have faith.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
That song helped me thru some real tough times in my life. I like its vulnerability, like the singer is not some "super Christian" who never goes thru moments of pain, confusion, helplessness and fear. Even Jesus Himself wept in the garden -- from fear -- the night before he was betrayed.
And yet, the song is hopeful, in its message that there IS a higher plan for us.
Thanks all for stopping. I loved the verses. These past few days I feel as if this is in God's hands (not like it wasn't before but i was not allowing it).
I almost pity my H for what he missing out on and choosing something so much less.
God is working on him and God is workng with me. How can I go wrong. Take care.
toot toot Karma bus coming our way.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
