Hi Beans,
I exposed -- H called SIL to tell her we were breaking up -- his words "we drifted but there was no one else". I called her and told her the truth.

I told my family, friends and finally exposed to supervision at work. She is his direct report. My D28 exposed to OW daughter but I think her family has just accepted him. OW is divorced, cheated on both husbands and 4 yr boyfriend with my H. (see a pattern)

Google OW H, get a PI. Are you in a fault state for D. Another good resource MYspace and facebook

Have you read Divorce busting or divorce remedy. Another good book Surviving an affair - hartley. keep us posted

He told me today that he was demoted and no longer manager.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09