You can do this Cagz. You are a strong good woman.

Don't be hard on yourself though. This all does not come natural.

It does get easier though.

Each time you think about calling him and don't - this then starts to become habit.

This then will empower you.

He will feel this, and sense this.

He will become curious.

Puzzled. -

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11