Here's an update:

I called H tonight to ask him about the program at my church to help us decide if we want to divorce. He was very receptive and didn't hesitate when I asked him if he was willing to go. He said "of course".

He agreed it is a good idea for us to go.

He also said that he went to that same church again he's been going to and this coming week they are going to talk about divorce. This last week they talked about the husband's role in a marriage and the previous week the wife's role in a marriage.

So I went online to the church's website and watched the sermon (about the man's role). Holy Cow!!! It was really really good. Basically the pastor talked about how a man must love his wife like Christ loves us. And lots and lots of other great things.

God is so amazing! I don't know exactly all my H's thoughts and feelings about the sermon, but he's got to be a zombie if didn't stir up something in him.

Maybe that's why he was so receptive about going to this program when I asked him.

Well anyway, he asked me if I would go to church with him this weekend when they are going to talk about divorce. I told him I would.

Now we need to set up a time to meet with the gentleman from my chruch so that we can start this program.

God is great, all the glory goes to Him.

I realize that our marriage is certainly not close to being saved, but I hope that it is at least headed one way or another......


M:36
H:36
M 3 Y
T 8 Y
No kids
Bomb 6/30/08
PA
I filed 9/29/09
D final 1/22/2010