Maybe she is waiting to hear you tell her that it doesn't have to be miserable.
It seems that WAW's only focus on the negative. Yea, yea, yea...all is good when your with the OM or OW. No worries about paying the bills, who is getting the kids from daycare, who is tkaing little johnny to the doctor and so on. But when reality hits, it hits hard.
Maybe she is setting you up? Maybe she is reaching out? WHo knows but you just have to keep DBing.
Seriously, the majority of us are/were here to try to make it work with our spouses, right? And most of us prayed, if you do pray, that "SOME DAY", we would have that day of reconcilitaion with our spouses, right? So what if this it, so what if this is SP's wife taking her baby steps and reaching out to him.
I agree with the the other person that said, it ain't over yet.
