Are you kidding me T-- all the time. And I now I am wondering if they are capable of "REAL" authentic love... I just don't know.
I agree with Peace--- I believe they loved the best they could...but see to love completely you have to be selfless... and when push came to shove...when it came to crunch time and they started getting MLC in the head... tehy CHOSE themselves over us. AND THAT is not authentic love.
I have a friend who's husband has parelled my x in his mlc. TOTALLY THE SAME in so many ways -- but ONE--- he hasn't bailed on his committment. I truly believe he has been in a mlc the past few years-- but HE CHOOSES to stay in his marriage.
They are a mess -- and they were running from themselves... I do believe they loved --- I just think they loved themselves more. (think about the Bible T-- it says that even sin brings pleasure but for a season....-- they wanted that SEASON -- got stuck in it...and stayed.)
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again