Go to an attorney and find out what your options are. Your WW will threaten to put you in the poor house. That is not going to happen. Stop listening to her b*llshit, pony up some $$ and find out exactly how much she can expect to get. You will sleep a bit better knowing you aren't going to be crucified.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09