Thanks for the boost Corey. I have been on the low self-esteem pool this past weekend. Overwhelmed and full of doubts. But I am working on it. Life didn't get this way in a day and it will take more than a day to get out of it.
Hope things are going well on your end. Just don't think of the mountain...just the small hill before you.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Yep its a hill...but for now TICK TOCK TICK TOCK TICK TOCK. 4/1 rapidly approacheth, so we shall see.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Well so far it appears that I will be visiting the Court House tomorrow as planned. Kinda sad but I can't say I really didn't expect it.
He keeps "saying" he is going to give us another try but since he has yet to make the total break with her...I have no other choice. I can only hear what he does, not what he says and the words and actions don't match. Oh well, stay tuned kids.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I'm going to add you to my prayers tonight. You are so strong!!! You rock, and you made your boundaries clear. You know we all support you here!!! (((((((Corey)))))))
(((SMW, Karen, WDID))) Ladies, I am doing fine. H claims he went to OWs house and broke it off last night. Do I have definitive proof, no. Do I want/need it? Yes.
I am prepared to "see" where this goes, but as always the necessary papers are complete and on my desktop...all I have to do is hit "print."
I do know that there has been NC between them today...I just know. I am skeptical but I am approaching the hill - we shall now refer to said hill as "Rattlesnake Mtn". There is an actual Rattlesnake Mtn. where I grew up and I have always been facsinated by it. I have issues, I know.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
(((SMW, Karen, WDID))) Ladies, I am doing fine. H claims he went to OWs house and broke it off last night. Do I have definitive proof, no. Do I want/need it? Yes.
I am prepared to "see" where this goes, but as always the necessary papers are complete and on my desktop...all I have to do is hit "print."
I do know that there has been NC between them today...I just know. I am skeptical but I am approaching the hill - we shall now refer to said hill as "Rattlesnake Mtn". There is an actual Rattlesnake Mtn. where I grew up and I have always been facsinated by it. I have issues, I know.
He's either:
1) Lying; or
2) Broke it off with some half-assed "maybe we should cool it for awhile" speech, and will only slip back into his old ways.
Unless he's willing to go full no-contact/transparency, I say "print away" and follow thru.
But Pup when would be the right time to take a leap of faith and see what happens? We are DB for a reason aren't we. And lets be honest it will take time to trust any of our WS again. They need to earn it.
I do think skepticism is good, but you gotta take a leap of faith at some point in this DB journey otherwise DBing is a whole waste of time. Just a thought...