HELP!!!!!!!

[fitzge]

Dave --

You manned up and mentioned a series of previous bad relationship. Sounds like the wheels came off the wagon at the one year point. Everything you've described about the previous year sounds a lot like the "honey moon" period -- too much perfection, too much like the soul mate thing. It looks like she simply showed her true colors. The verbal abuse thing is way out of line; not caring about you is way out of line; focusing totally on herself is a HUGE RED FLAG. Dave, this woman has the gifts to make the rest of your life (or at least the next few years) totally miserable. Tell her to go pound salt and press on with your life.