john you are a fortune teller...yes, thats exactly what she said, saying he was not responsible, that she was going to leave me 3 years ago, though there were no signs of that. then she said she decided to stay until the kids got through high school, which is bs. said they were just 'friends' and that he wanted to work on his marriage. unfortunately, i read the emails at the time and she didnt regard him as just a 'friend', because friends dont talk to each other like that. she said they tried breaking it off a few times because he wanted to work on his marriage. neither of them could work on their marriage because these two saw each other at work all the time, went out to lunch, drinks, were with each other on road trips. they couldnt work on their marriages because plan b was always in their pockets. neither tried to do the right thing and both dont care. they are their soul mates of course.