Stay and be miserable? Why is that the only option other than leave? What's wrong with stay and be happy? You can do it. You just have to be willing to try. That's when you bring up a Retrouvaille weekend. You don't have to commit to the whole thing at once. You go to the weekend -- it's less than 48 hours. And you see how it goes. Then you decide about the rest. That's what we did. And we've never looked back!