When all you got is hurt / One love / One blood

[Valentine]

"I probably should shoot him"....


ROFLMAO!!!!


Virtually...you ARE the wit, aren't you???

Loved it...my first bust out laugh of the day....

Valentine

[MichelleLT]

LOL

That is good.

And true!

[Valentine]

Chick I love ur use of U2 lyrics...they are my all-time favorite band...

Vali

[FLTC]

Hey Michelle,

I haven't been here in a while, but might it not be time to just pull the trigger yourself? He needs to go.......

[MichelleLT]

For all-time favorite bands I have a bit of a tie.

U2 obviously with Metallica, Bon Jovi, and Dire Straits.

Papers are all filled out and even signed. And now they are hopefully filed. I was not going to pay $280 when I qualify for a fee waiver just because he hadn't gotten his papers filled out correctly. He SAID he'd file them while I was gone. I need to find out if/when he did.

I suspect it's more of an if. He seems to be slipping back into his depression again and he never has the energy to take care of things when he is depressed. He is not talking to family and friends, back with OW yet again, drinking heavily, etc etc etc. It's especially sad to see this time as he was doing well for a while there.

At any rate, went to a concert on Saturday night with my mom. Group called Thriving Ivory. Alternative rock. R described them as Coldplay and Lifehouse meets the Cure.

[mishka422]

OMG, what a combo! Coldplay and Lifehouse meets the Cure! All faves! U2 is coming here in October and I'm chomping at the bit to get tickets! They go on sale on Monday morning.

Glad you had a good time. Your mom liked the concert?

[MsMelancoly]

Seems like your H is in a downward spiral, that he cannot stop. That is sad.

Sounds like you recovered from your jet lag .... out all night with your mom!!

[MichelleLT]

OMG So jealous. I would LOVE to see U2 in concert! I'm tempted to fly out lol.

My mom liked the concert. Sitting through the two opening acts, not quite as much. But we had a good time chatting over dinner and then at the concert (when it wasn't too loud to attempt to talk lol).

I am recovered from my jet lag and back at my legal stuff. Today was my first day back. I am getting settled in and trying to get up to speed on some current projects.

I e-mailed STBXH on Sunday asking if he filed the D papers and when we could work on the taxes. No response yet.

Talked to SIL today. We're going to a concert together at the end of the month. She complained a bit that STBXH is not talking to her and that he is so wishy washy. She saw he got back together with TAP and was digusted. She thinks under all his annoyance at her neediness and clinginess that he secretly needs someone to depend on him. I guess by doing my GAL stuff I actually did the anti-DB thing in my situation, as it obviously hasn't worked.

As much as that hurts though, I need to be in a balanced and loving R, and I'm not sure he'll be capable of that for a long time.

[mishka422]

I hear ya sister! You need loving and balanced, he needs neurotic and sick! It all balances out in the end.

If you want to see U2 on your end of the country at least they will be at the Rose Bowl on 25OCT. Ok, so it's an 8 hour drive or a 5 hour flight. You decide! I'd be more than happy to host you here though if you want to come this direction. Have you ever been to Atlanta?

[MichelleLT]

I have never really been to Atlanta. I have flown in and out of Atlanta. When my STBXH was at Ft Benning.

The Rose Bowl eh? I need to check out their concert dates and see if my friends want to go. I'd SO go to SoCal for U2! It's only 1 1/2 hours by plane...I got the round-trip ticket to go to visit my SIL at the end of the month for $160...

I was gone for training last time they made it to Cal and I swore I'd see them next time around if they came anywhere west of the Missisippi LOL.