I had to call ex about d8's glasses. We couldn't find then this morning so thought she may have left them there. I wanted him to also understand where d8 is coming from as far as "Daddy". I told him what she said about the AT&T commercial and how it broke my heart. I told him that I explained to her that Daddy doesn't live here now and won't in the future.

She said she just felt as if he was missing from the "family". I said yes, that is something he decided to do. So now it is us and we are going to be fine. It is ok to love Daddy and to miss him, he just doesn't belong here anymore.

I could tell ex was taking it in, but I was getting all teary eyed talking about d8 that I said I had to go.

Maybe I didn't say what I should have or said too much but only an insensitive idiot like my ex wouldn't understand the pain they are in. He still harps about S16's choice not to participate in "his nights and weekends".

kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
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