Thanks for the encouragement I really appreciate it, helps keep me on the right track.
Just thinking 'out loud'................
One thing that has been bothering me is that since all of this has happened, I have not had a chance to take responsibility for the things I have done wrong in our R. Or I guess mean that I have not been able to acknowledge to H that I do realize I have not been perfect either and that there are many things I could have done differently/better in our R. It has only become clear to me after the last several weeks reflecting on the situation. I feel it is important for me to own up and take responsibility for my part. However I am 3 weeks into not initiating any R talk so wont bring it up now. Hope I am doing the right thing. It just keeps playing on my mind as I'm not able to talk about it now.
Also, I have the DR book but was just wondering if the other book, DB, is worth getting and reading as well or is they have the same things in them? can anyone advise?
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
