W came by today to talk to D10. We talked at the door for awhile. I told her how upset I was, how I felt lied to, etc. She doesn't think she has done anything wrong. Every example I brought up she had justified in her mind that it was all ok. 'He had a bad marriage', 'we are so alike and communicate so well'. 'We have things we never had'. 'He didn't break up our marriage'. 'I expect to be with him forever', stuff like that. She has made me look like everything he isn't. She is very concerned about what I'm telling my kids, because she has done no wrong. I said she had to have some level of doubt about this guy, after what he did to his wife. She has none. She has no guilt for what she has done. He's so perfect for her. Its all so troubling.
