hmmmmm True...I have been calling him my EX for a while...even though he is not...and sometimes i have to remember to say Husband when dealing with people....

Yes the tax thing is resolved and my lawyer will be sending the FINAL draft to me no later than Wednesday. So hopefully will have a hearing next week to get divorced finally.

Weird.

Met with Mr. Sexy Voice and decided that I really need more than he can give...it was sad for both of us but I trust we will remain friends---I still think he is a good man...just not the right one for me...I need so much more. And he is focusing oon other things---like career and his daughter---and that takes precedence right now...and I am glad he was able to tell me that...

Sigh...oh well...I have no plans on dating...I think I just want to be alone and have joined a group of others who do activities together...but NO DATING. I am going to a museum in a couple of weeks with said group...I am sure it will be great fun!

Now to get used to being Vali + maiden name....I am using my maiden name on practically everything...and will change it legally once the divorce goes through. At work I am still legally Vali + Married name.But I introduce myself as Vali + Maiden name now to everyone I meet...and at church too...sigh.

Hope you're doing well and that you are having beautiful weather...

It's gorgeous here...except for tree pollen which I am allergic to...LOL! Ah well, thank goodness for allergy shots!

Hugs,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller