I think it sounds like a GREAT conversation and a great way to handle it, when she brings it up again. I can't figure out a positive to you bringing it up.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."