As I reflect on the weekend I'm seriously starting to wonder if she's trying to play me.

I know I'm not supposed to THINK, just DB, but it is a concern.

I'm flirting with the idea of starting a talk w/ "I was thinking about our discussion last weekend" and then saying that I think there's really 2 discrete pieces to this divorce (since that's clearly what she's still interested in): the kids and the money.

While I absolutely agree on total cooperative work with respect to the children, on the money thing I just feel that I might be out of my depth and think that, at this point in time anyway, I'm going to reserve the right to consult with a professional who will have a fiduciary responsibility to me personally.

Thoughts on that strategy?