I read your post, and it is full of good advice. Thank you. These things that you posted...they are very hard to do, especially when a person who is hurting is thinking with their heart instead of their head. Nevertheless, I know that these are the best things to do. We just need to be strong enough, and committed enough, to do them. God help us to do the right things. It's like living in limbo. We are separated; she moved from our home about 5 weeks ago. I made all of the mistakes someone who is getting left usually makes...the ones that only serve to push your spouse further away. I am learning. Thank you again for your post.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.